How can tensions be eased within an interfaith relationship?


Most of the difficulty that interfaith partners face emerges from the same issues that create challenges for all couples: relationships with family and decisions about children. Mutual support and open lines of communication are key to smoothing out this difficult issue. Many people wait to make choices about children; in an interfaith relationship, those are decisions that are better made earlier rather than later.

If a family has made the decision to practice Judaism, it is important that the Jewish spouse make an effort to be inclusive and welcoming. The same goes if the religion chosen is not Judaism. We recommend making sure that all family members' feelings are taken into account, acknowledged and affirmed. In many cases, depending on who has taken on primary parenting responsibilities, the family's religion may even be shaped and guided by the spouse who was not born into that religion. It is therefore of utmost importance that there is mutual support and acceptance.