What can be done to help raise children in an interfaith home?


A supremely important thing to remember is that the responsibilities of childrearing in interfaith homes, particularly in the area of religious development, is best if shared. A supportive environment, one that recognizes the diversity of the family origins, is important particularly when decisions have been made to raise the children in one religion.

--How can non-Jewish parents imbue their children with Jewish identities without losing their own?

Identity is formed from the memory of experience. To shape the identity of children, parents must naturally share in their experiences, which often requires calling to memory the parents' identity-shaping experiences they themselves had when they were younger. To maintain that identity, the non-Jewish spouse may choose to continue to find appropriate venues for those experiences (perhaps even observing or celebrating vicariously through relatives or friends) or may want to translate those identity-affirming experiences into a Jewish context.