Bar and Bat Mitzvah Lessons Online

Preparing for a bar or bat mitzvah can be a daunting challenge for many in the Jewish community, particularly those who aren’t fully engaged in Jewish life. Not only are the logistics demanding, trying to squeeze in lessons between other extra-curricular activities, but the lessons themselves are intensive. A young man or woman is expected to gain a certain level of proficiency in Hebrew, to a level where they can comfortably read from the Torah. The barriers are high for almost any family in the Jewish community, perhaps enough to keep some from even choosing to participate in this important life-cycle event.

A new website, launched by a 3rd year rabbinical student at the Jewish Theological Seminary, aims to lower these barriers by offering bar and bat mitzvah tutoring lessons online. The website (and is an interactive resource that “allows for learning to take place in the comfort of your own home.”

This is an interesting example of electronic Public Space Judaism - maximizing technology to reach those on the periphery of the Jewish community where they are, on their terms. By leveraging online tools, it’s easier to work at the pace of the student and allows for greater flexibility in scheduling. But more importantly, it provides an avenue for people who might not be able to find a bar or bat mitzvah tutor in their area, or people who are unaffiliated but want to begin the training process.

Of course, there are challenges in all of this for and others who are trying to raise the profile of Jewish education online. For instance, if one of the target demographics is unaffiliated members of the community, how do you let them know this tool exists? How do you get this information into their hands in the first place?

There are a lot of pros and cons of putting traditional synagogue and institutional offerings online. But for many it is a low barrier experience that can become the first step in joining our Big Tent. Increasing access points through an online connection is a powerful tool that can lead to deeper engagement in a physical community, a strengthened identity, and sustained participation in Jewish life.


  1. This sounds like a great idea, im tired of driving my kids and my husband works late hours, so its all on me. Thank you for bringing this to my attention. I will send them an email.

    Comment by Hillarie Cohen — February 2, 2011 @ 4:19 pm

  2. What a great way to get to those families who don’t have access to a Bar Mitzvah tutor or even a synagogue! I will definitely spread the word.

    Comment by Debbie Kovalsky — February 2, 2011 @ 4:41 pm

  3. However… for some families, this is the “concierge” model of Judaism: my way, my limited time commitment. Families who would otherwise affiliate see this as an easy way to one goal only: Bar/t Mitzvah, thus losing the rich and multi level opportunities and support they would have being a part of a synagogue community. For those who can’t get to a brick and mortar building, this is a good starting point. But there is no substitute for being in the embrace of a community during this special life cycle event.

    Comment by Sara Losch — February 7, 2011 @ 2:51 pm

  4. Sarah-

    Your comment has a lot of merit. I even think that it might apply to certain online bar mitzvah tutors and how they conduct their business. All that being said, I went to just to check it out and I don’t think that their model of tutoring costs families and their bar mitzvah-aged children the rich and multi-leveled support that they get as part of a synagogue community. To the contrary, I think that wants its students and families to be in the embrace of the community during this special time in their life. They are just striving to provide a more accessible way for students to prepare for their bar/bat mitzvah. In fact, their website even says that they support synagogue affiliation and will prepare the bar/bat mitzvah student according to the synagogue’s service, rituals, and requirements. I would argue that actually promotes the rich and multi-level opportunities that a synagogue offers by providing such an accessible and structured bar/bat mitzvah tutoring service.

    Comment by Michael Goldrich — February 10, 2011 @ 5:11 pm

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  6. Hi Yoni, what I need for Stevie Rae ( daughter) is bat- mitzvah classes and maybe hebrew classes. I think emails are probably going to work a lot better for contacting eachother . ThNks so much for your fast response


    Comment by Patty — November 18, 2014 @ 6:16 pm

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