Big Tent Judaism

Bar Mitzvah Tutoring—Whenever, Wherever

As advocates of Public Space Judaism, we at JOI are fans of the Chabad approach to program location. And while some may take issue with certain aspects of Chabad’s methods, one simple truth cannot be denied: they take Judaism to where people are. And that is what outreach is all about. Recently, I received a mailing from the local Chabad in New Jersey (run by my colleague, Rabbi Levi Azimov), detailing their latest outreach innovation.

Among a number of educational offerings, they offer Bar Mitzvah tutoring—whether the Bar Mitzvah takes place through the Chabad or not—at a time that is convenient for the family. In other words, if your personal schedule conflicts with the class schedule, not to worry. They will find a way to make it work.

I wonder how long it will take for others in the community to do the same. If the Bar and Bat Mitzvah is a critical rite of passage for building Jewish identity, particularly for those in interfaith families, are we prepared to do what is necessary to make it truly accessible?

Mothers Circle Shabbat in Hartford

Family, good friends, and home-made challah—some of the best things about Shabbat (Sabbath) dinner were all there at the Chai Center in Avon, Connecticut, where fourteen families gathered for a traditional Shabbat. But the most interesting thing about this Shabbat was the least traditional—the moms at the table are raising Jewish families, but they are not Jewish themselves.

Intermarriage is on the rise, and an increasing number of women who were not brought up Jewish are deciding to create a Jewish family for their kids. The Mothers Circle offers these moms a Jewish education, hands-on experience with Jewish rituals, and the support of their peers.

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